Sawyer 6 months


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So I wrote this post about 3 weeks ago right before Sawyer turned 6 months.  I finally got around to taking the picture today.

 

Sawyer has been here for half of a year.  It’s a little hard to believe that it’s been that long but at the same time it feels like he’s been here forever.  So much has happened in his short little life!  He’s the perfect addition to our family and I just can’t get enough of his chubby cheeks, and chubby thighs…all the chubby things.  He’s also an exact replica of his daddy which I love!

 

Oh man, Sawyer is killing me on the sleep department.  He still wakes up definitely once a night and sometimes two, three or four times.  He nurses every time and falls back asleep while doing so.  It seems as though he is nursing for food, not just for comfort.  Not sure if I will have to do cry it out at some point? Or do I just grin and bear it and hopefully one day it will stop?  I’m thinking he will be super stubborn with cry it out and just cry and cry and cry.  Also for naps, we rock him to sleep, then put him down.  There’s definitely no, “I’ll fall asleep on my own” happening with this kid.  He also still prefers to be held and doesn’t want to be down for more then a couple minutes at a time.  I was hoping once he started sitting up, this would get better, but I still can’t get anything done without him crying or having to hold him.  He’s super grabby now too, so that makes it even harder to do things (like eat) while holding him.

 

Stats:  Weight: 18 pounds 6 ounces (71st percentile) Height:  28 inches (95th percentile).  He’s got the chubbiest little feet I’ve ever seen!

Likes: Loves getting raspberries and being tickled.  Loves watching Sebastian.  He’s starting to like the Jump-a-roo more and will jump in it for about 10 minutes at most before he’s ready to be held.

Dislikes:  Still doesn’t like being put down.

Nicknames: Still Flubber?  Matt and I decided to give the nick name a try and after calling him “Flubber” in conversation about two times each we both just started laughing.  It definitely felt super silly.  We are guessing Sebastian somehow changed the word brother to flubber?  Sounds close right?

Firsts: First time camping/First trip to a National Park!!  The Grand Canyon was great! He did awesome but boy camping with two small children is a lot of work.

Milestones: He’s now sitting up!  I was definitely ready for him to hit this milestone but he can take as long as he wants for crawling and walking.  We also started solids.  It took him about a week to figure out food and he hasn’t looked back since.

Sleep: Ugh.  See above.

Sebastian’s reactions to Sawyer:  Sebastian will do whatever he can to get Sawyer to laugh.  This includes jumping around, pretending to fall down and bang into things and just being crazy.  He gets the biggest belly laughs out of Sawyer.

The Connell Family


I’m so glad the Connell family braved this chilly windy day, because I am absolutely in love with this session!  Jeff and Katie had family visiting from New Hampshire and took the opportunity to get a few family photos.

Meet Tim, Rachel and Laliah.  So wish they lived in CA!

 

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I sent them this image (early) just in time for Father’s Day.  Such a sweet daddy!
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Remember Jeff, Katie and Charlie?
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Love this one so much…this one needs to get printed for sure!Connell8  Connell9

Another great daddy photo!Connell10

You guys are the cutest!
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The whole crew.  What a fun family!Connell12

Sorry ladies reading this who want kids…oh my ovaries!Connell13

Thank you so much Connell family!  We may need to make this a yearly tradition (or however many times you get together in CA).

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Felipe Family Portraits


Okay, get ready to witness a family that has the most beautiful eyes.  Especially the girls!  I met this sweet mama at the park a few weeks ago and our boys hit it off.  Our babies like each other too.  I also love listening to her Irish accent (the mama, not the baby).

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See, I told you about the eyes…
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Oh, heart melted!Felipe03

I spy some toofers! Felipe04

Ha, I love Niall’s expression.  He’s like, okay fine, I’ll put my hands in the air, happy?Felipe05  Felipe06

Every kid loves this!
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Have I mentioned I absolutely love living 5 minutes from the beach?…Only a zillion times!
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This one may be my favorite.  Love the laughs!
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Oh my gosh, I love this one so much.  So much personality! Felipe17

Maisey’s 1st birthday cake smash


This session may possibly be the most proud I have ever been of my photography.  I’ve been doing online photography courses and I really feel like the things I’m implementing are starting to show a big difference in my work.  It also doesn’t hurt that I took pictures of the cutest family in a really cool house!

 

Happiest of birthdays sweet Maisey!!

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Gillian got these adorable decorations from Pippa & Co in Alameda.  I’ll definitely be heading to them next time I need some cute props!
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A quick outfit change…
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Sweet big sister Avery had to get in the action!  Gillian we definitely need to get our kids together soon!
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I don’t have the words to express how much I adore this photo.  I hope these girls feel the same way about this picture when they are older!

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Cake time!

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Mmm cake!  That little curl just kills me!
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Can I just have a moment for this farm sink?!  Love, love, love!

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The sweetest face I’ve ever seen!

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We had to get one of the whole family!  Dad is just a little outnumbered…I feel you Sean!
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Sweet picture taken with quilt made by grandma, check!

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Gillian, you are so gorgeous!  I see where your girls get it from!

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Allex Family Grand Canyon


Thank goodness for family pictures at the Grand Canyon.  This was the only day the Allex family showered while camping. GrandCanyon_189  GrandCanyon_218  GrandCanyon_222

My favorite.   I will cherish this picture forever.  So glad we had friends to share this fun trip with (and to snap this photo).GrandCanyon_232

This is Sebastian’s “I really want the candy you have in your hand so I’m going to smile really big” smile.
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Hope these kiddos will be lifelong friends.
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Until next time GC!GrandCanyon_298

Werner Family Grand Canyon


Last week we met our friends from Denver in the Grand Canyon.  It just so happens that the Grand Canyon is half way between SF and Denver!  While camping at the Grand Canyon our families took the opportunity to (shower and) take pics in front of this giant hole in the ground.

 

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Someone pointed out on Facebook that they looked scary close to the edge.  I assure you they look closer then they really were!GrandCanyon_210 copy  GrandCanyon_213  GrandCanyon_246

I absolutely love this picture of two sweet sisters.  I hope they treasure this forever.
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This is Marina’s service dog Jive.  She alerts Mike and Nicole when Marina’s blood sugar is low or high.  We witnessed this about 40384 times on this trip. She’s one incredible dog.  I’m so glad the Werner’s have Jive…type 1 diabetes is hard, and scary.
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Matt has known these two friends since college and I’ve known them since I’ve known Matt.  So glad we have kept in touch over the distance.  Looking forward to many more family vacations in the future!

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Avi’s 1st Birthday Party


If you’ve been to my son’s birthday parties (or seen the blog posts), then you know I love themed parties and this beach themed party was so much fun! What made it even better was that it was right next to the beach!  Have I mentioned yet that I love living on an Island!?!

Starting off with my favorite from the day…I call this the superman pose!

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I love elaborate cakes just as much as I love themed parties.  This one did not disappoint!
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I mean…fondant flip flops!AviBday3

The perfect party favors! AviBday4

Sweet birthday boy.AviBday5  AviBday6

Little party animal.

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Time to smash the cake!AviBday8

Avi wasn’t so sure about the cake…
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Mommy and daddy stepped in to help.AviBday10  AviBday11

Oh Avi, you have the cutest little smile!AviBday12  AviBday13

Baby friends!!
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Henry turns 4, Audrey turns 1!


Henry and his little sister Audrey had one big birthday bash!  This was my first (ever) of 4 birthday party shoots in the next month.  I’m so excited that shooting birthday parties is a thing…or I’m making it a thing, because it is perfect for me!  I love candid event shooting, I love being around kids and birthday parties are so much fun.  Double bonus when I get to bring my favorite 3 year old sidekick with me!

Henry had SPIDERMAN at his party…I mean how cool is that?!?!

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And the sweet little one year old princess!H&Abday2

Loved all the details, Courtney put into the party.  Especially the capes.  The kids were all so stinking cute running around with superhero capes!

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We set up a fun little photo booth for some of the guests…H&Abday7  H&Abday8

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Meeting Spiderman!
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All the kids were so excited about Spiderman!

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Such a pretty mama and baby!  Gosh, those blue eyes though!
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My favorite part of a birthday party….cake time!

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Audrey wasn’t too excited about her big cake, so we tried a cupcake.H&Abday20

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Sebastian (my aforementioned sidekick) especially loved the piñata!
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What a great party!H&Abday27

Such a beautiful family!
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Sawyer 5 months


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I feel like not a whole lot has changed since last month.  Sawyer can roll over both ways now, but hardly ever does.  He doesn’t seem quite as quick to hit milestones as Sebastian was and I’m okay with that.  I’m definitely not ready for him to start becoming more mobile any time soon!  He is starting to sit up for a few seconds at a time before falling over though.  His sleeping schedule is getting much better, thank goodness!  His red hair is getting longer and more obvious.  People are starting to comment on it now.  He’s also just a little clone of his daddy which I just love.  I really don’t think he looks much like Sebastian (or me for that matter) at all.  I’ve tried (and failed) twice putting the boys in the same room to nap.  Sawyer napped (for a little while) but not Sebastian.  I’m not quite ready to move Sawyer in Sebastian’s room at night…I want to wait until he drops the 5:30 wake up time. I definitely don’t need Sebastian waking up that early!

Stats: We won’t get stats until his 6 month well check.

Likes:  His big brother Sebastian.  No one can get as big and as many giggles out of Sawyer as Sebastian does.  He completely adores his older brother, watches everything he does and thinks he’s the funniest thing in the world.

Dislikes:  He still doesn’t like to be put down for more then a few minutes or so at a time.  It’s starting to get a bit frustrating.  I mean, I love holding my baby, but I would like to be able to do a couple things two handed.  Also, he will fuss sometimes when I walk out of the room.  I’m guessing he’ll have separation anxiety when he gets a little bit older.

Nicknames: The nickname Sebastian uses the most still is “Little Flubber”.  I don’t know where that one came from, but it’s starting to catch on a little as I find myself wanting to call him that every once and a while.

Firsts: I honestly can’t think of any first this month.  Just the same old same old!  Loving our new life in California!

Milestones: Rolling over from back to front, starting to show interest in what we eat.  He also found his feet the other day and likes holding them.

Sleep: Sawyer is finally going to bed a bit earlier then before which gives us more down time in the evenings and he started sleeping through the night again.  Thank goodness his 4 month sleep regression is over!  His bedtime is around 9:00.  He usually sleeps straight through until about 5:30, wakes to eat and then goes back to sleep until about 7:30 or 8:00. His first nap is usually around 9:00 and naps for about an hour or so every couple hours during the day.  There is somewhat of a pattern starting to develop which is making things a bit easier and more predictable.

Sebastian’s reactions to Sawyer:  Nothing different here.  He still adores his baby brother and will do just about anything to get him to laugh.  He’s also really great at trying to comfort Sawyer.  Although we did have the first incident between the two where Sebastian was swinging around a plastic hot wheel track piece and accidently hit Sawyer’s little forehead.  Sawyer was in his swing and I was in the other room.  It left a tiny little scrape on his forehead.

The Secret of Happiness


You guys, I think I’ve found the secret to happiness.  At least my version of it, and it feels so good.  So all you have to do to find it too is to move to California.  Okay, just kidding, kind of, but it definitely seems to have worked for me.  Here’s how:

 

1. Being the best mommy I can be.

I think I was meant to be a stay at home mom.  I was pretty shredded when I had to go back to work after I had Sebastian.  I tried to find a way to stay home, it just wasn’t financially in the cards.  I made the best of it and my job (and the 5:30 am alarm clock) and lived for the summers when I got to be home all day every day.  Moving out to California has allowed me to stay at home with my boys and I love it so much.  It’s taken a couple months (and Sawyer to get out of the newborn stage) to start establishing a routine, but we’ve figured out a good schedule that has worked for us. The boys go to bed around 9:00pm, we get an hour or two of adult time before we go to bed.  The kids wake up around 8:00.  On some mornings (depending on how late I went to bed or if Sawyer was up a lot), I get up at 6:30 or 7:00 to have some ‘me time’.  As soon as the boys wake up, we slowly start getting ready for the day.  Making breakfast, getting everyone dressed, packing a lunch for Sebastian, etc.  We are usually out the door by 10 to walk to the park, walk to Park street (with shops and restaurants), walk to our friends house, go to the zoo or any of the other 10 million things we’ve found to do here.  Getting out and doing something is key to having our day go as smoothly as possible.  Afternoons are reserved for naps, or these days trying to get Sebastian to nap.  I’m trying to find something to fill the 4-6pm time slot as those hours before Matt gets home seems to drag a bit.  There have been a few days where a walk around the block or a run to the corner store to buy ingredients to bake with Sebastian, or going to the gym (see below) have been a great way to fill that time.  Also, Sebastian is starting to become obsessed with legos and that’s a fun way for both of us to spend our afternoons…we just need more lego sets!

 

Now having a good routine definitely helps for a smoother day, but we are talking about taking care of little humans, and that is no easy task.  3 year olds can be unpredictable, emotional and down right jerks.  I’ve been working very hard on keeping my cool and talking with my sister (whose job is to work with kids with behaviors), my mother-in-law who raised 4 super successful adults, and my friend (will mention her later in the post) on how to be a better mom.  I’ve learned what works with Sebastian…when he is mad or hurt, is to leave him ALONE or he will scream at you and make the situation worse.  It’s pretty simple, but hard to do.  Once he’s calm is when I can approach him and try to talk him through what happened.  I may have to write a whole separate blog post for what I’m doing with Sebastian to try to get him to stop screaming and teaching him how to calm himself down without hitting or throwing something.  Mostly, I just trying to raise him well and do a good job being his mom.  I’m reading a book called The Danish Way of Parenting.  If you feel like you are struggling with your tiny human, you should check it out!

 

2. Mind, body and soul

When I first moved to California in January, I still had 13 pounds left from my pregnancy weight.  I wore baggy shirts and clothes to hide it (and only had about 5 shirts and 2 pairs of pants that fit me).  The first couple months, I walked everywhere, and most places with a heavy baby strapped to my chest.  I also watched what I ate and tracked my calories using the MyFitnessPal app.  That took care of about 10 of those pounds.  Then, I started talking with a new friend about a gym membership at the place where Sebastian plays soccer.  The biggest draw to this place was that it had 2 hours of childcare a day.  Get a couple hours break from my boys AND get to workout and take care of my body?  Sign me up!  I haven’t worked out since before I was pregnant with Sebastian but I jumped right in doing Barre classes and I love them.  If you don’t know what they are, look up a couple Youtube videos.  I feel stronger, I feel happier, I feel better about my body.  Gosh, this is a no brainer win, win.  And Sebastian has a bounce house to play in while I’m working out, so I assure you, he is just fine…and it’s good to get him some time away from me.  He’s teared up a few times I’ve left him there and I want him to become more comfortable again without me.  The baby is fine too, and spoiled.  He likes to be held (like fusses after 5 minutes of being put down every time) and every time I go to pick him up, he’s in someones arms.  I feel a little bit bad, but at least it’s only 2 hours!

As for my soul, just walking down the adorable streets of Alameda, on the way to the park, with my two favorite (little) people in tow, with the gorgeous weather and amazingly good smelling flowers everywhere…well it’s hard to hate it.

 

3. Friendships- Surrounding myself with happy people

It is so easy to make friends here.  My first friend I made, I met at the park right after I moved here.  I spotted her from across the park (talking to someone already, darn) wearing a baby, watching her toddler son.  She looked just like me, also wearing my baby and watching my toddler son.  We eventually found each other nursing our babies on nearby benches and used the best mom pick up line “how old is your baby” and the rest is history.  We’ve been hanging out and taking our kids on adventures about 4 times a week or so since.  It’s so nice to have a mommy friend and she’s such a great mommy and great example for me when it comes to managing toddler (preschooler) behaviors!  I also have my gym buddy who has two kids, one is Sebastian’s age which is probably the biggest thing that gets me motivated to go to the gym.  And the boys love playing together.  Even though we live in a city, it definitely has a small time feel and the more we go certain places, the more we see the same people over and over.  It’s great to be new in town, but still recognize people throughout our days.  We also have my brother and sister-in-law and niece a 20 minute (or so) drive away in one of the coolest cities.  It’s so nice to have family so close!

 

4.  Building back my beloved business

I have loved taking photos since I was (at the very least) a freshman in high school.  I did the whole darkroom, artsy photography thing all through high school and college and started my business the summer after my first year of teaching.  Since then how busy I’ve been with my business would depend on what was going on in my life.  For a while there I’d have about 15 weddings a year (alongside teaching) with several portrait sessions. Once I had Sebastian, I quickly realized I couldn’t do all three, be a mommy, teach full time and continue my business so photography had to go.  I still did a few portrait sessions a year and a couple weddings but nothing like before.  Now that I’ve dropped teaching, I feel that I have time in my life to pick photography back up and am thrilled so far with the response and shoots I’ve gotten so quickly.  Hopefully it can continue to grow! This stage in my life, I’m not as interested in weddings (as it takes up so many weekend hours), but I am extremely interested in families.  If you have been following my blog, you’ll see I’ve had a couple really great shoots already.

 

5. Constantly learning and working to become a better version of myself

From watching webinars for my business to reading parenting books, to following “people who seem to have it together” on social media, to talking to my people about how to best raise my children…I am always trying to be a better version of myself.  Rachel Hollis from The Chic Site is a huge motivator for me…she posts inspirational messages on Instagram and Facebook, does live streams and has a motivational book coming out next year that I can’t wait to get my hands on.  I also have a friend from NC who started ‘Spreading Kindness Confetti’…An idea just to be kind and do kind acts for people. It’s such a simple idea and for some reason seems hard to fit into your day, but is so important.  She does these kind acts all through the month, but has come up with one a month for you to do.  Last month it was to donate books and this month it’s to give someone flowers.  (We need to get on that before the month is over).  I can’t wait to see what she has for next month!

 

There you have it, 5 easy steps to be happier!